Thankful… for #3 in so many ways

It was only when I was pregnant with Kate that I started noticing how caring and thoughtful #3 was. I had a very difficult pregnancy and was bed-bound for most of the 9 months. Initially, the kids were all very helpful, but they got tired of it and slowly became less and less helpful. Except for #3. Even till the end, she never hesitated or gave any excuse when I called for her. She pushed me to the toilet on the study chair, brought my food to the room, fed me on days when I couldn't even feed myself, and dressed me when I had to make a trip to the doctor's. I could be calling her throughout the day to fetch things for me and she always paused what she was doing and came to me. Ever since then, and after the birth of Kate, her character has really started to show, and I can say that there is not much more I can ask for in a child.

2 weeks ago she said, "Mum, is it ok if I take boy for a movie after school tomorrow?" I was slightly taken aback as #5 is only 7, and none of them has taken him out alone. "I asked him if he wants to watch the Lego movie and he said that his friends have watched it and he wants to watch it too. I know you are very busy so I can take him there by bus. Don't worry mum, we'll be fine." Deep in my heart, I knew they would be fine as #3 is very independent and also very nurturing. Besides, the bus goes all the way to the terminal so there won't be any roads to cross. I allowed them to go and told them I would pick them back so that they'll be in time for dinner. It suddenly hit me that my kids have really grown up!

Sibling day out

When they came back, she immediately went to take care of Kate as she missed her very much, having been out the whole day. She's also the one who spends the most time with Kate, playing with her, seeing to her needs, and teaching her all sorts of things. When Kate had quite a bad fall and bumped her head, she immediately ran to her, picked her up and consoled her. My sister-in-law said to me "Why are you sitting here so calmly? Looks more like she's the mummy." I quipped, "That's her first child, but my 6th".

Her real life toy

Sometimes after school, she invites her friends over to play with Kate as they all dote on her and Kate loves her jie jie's friends too. We don't own a dog and she knows that Kate loves dogs, so she goes to our neighbours' houses to 'borrow' their dogs.

#3's friend taking care of Kate

In the evenings, our helper used to settle Kate to sleep but these days, once our helper carries her into the room, she starts to wail as she wants to hang around with the rest of the family instead of going to bed. I was starting to get worried as this meant that I was a prisoner in the evenings. I was also wondering what am I to do when I go for my trip with my mum next month. One night, when I had to accompany the hubs for dinner, #3 told me that she would try to put her to bed, and she managed to! She even chose the safest bed for Kate to sleep in, which was the pull-out section of a bed, so that she will be sandwiched and won't be able to roll off.

All in a day's work

One wonderful trait of #3 is that nothing fazes her. She looks forward to challenges and instead of being stumped or anxious, she faces them squarely and thinks of ways to solve them. If one solution doesn't work, she will think of another way.
          

I really love her can-do attitude. I took her for her dental appointment and as we were pressed for time, I instructed her to run up first while I went to search for a carpark. Just as I dropped her off, I asked her "Which floor is it?" (because I couldn't remember). She hollered back, "I'm not sure but I'll find my way!" and she dashed off. With this child, I don't have to worry about her. 

You know, the strange thing was that when they were growing up, I had the most problems with her. She couldn't sit still (too much energy), was always answering your questions with more questions (her mind thinks too fast), and was always getting lost (extremely curious child). But now, all that is working out really well. The same issues which I had with her became a boon instead of a bane.

I am indeed blessed.

Thankful Tuesdays:

"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has" - Epictetus

Thankful… for the hub's cooking
Thankful… for #5's cooking and caring of Kate
Thankful… for #3 in so many ways
Thankful… for sister-in-law #1

Thankful… for our helper

Thankful… for my family

Thankful… for the beauty of nature

Thankful… for my mum-in-law

Thankful… for my father-in-law
Thankful… for all who helped create this blog
Thankful… for #4's resilience and forgiveness
Thankful… for blogging perks
Thankful… for my husband's extended family
Thankful... for #2, the dream baby
Thankful... for school
Thankful... for my parents

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